1. ufwhoa:

    pcx436:

    ufwhoa:

    haruhi fujioka isnt cis just a happy & true fact to think about whenever u feel down

    She technically is cis, which isn’t bad. She’s okay with her gender but she doesn’t care what you view her as either way.

    let me let u in on a secret…. saying you dont care what gender people view u as and being comfortable and happy while presenting and idenfitying as more than one gender is not something cis people do

     
  2. dothewordything:

    I made a post before regarding how uncomfortable I was with both the way the scene in the latest episode of RWBY where Juane wearing a dress is considered a joke and the reactions of the majority of the FNDM. Because the idea that somebody who is read as male wearing a dress is deserving of ridicule is deeply transmisogynistic and should be acknowledged as such. The argument that followed (with theeldritchdreamer, who did not reply to my last reblog of it) can be found here. This is an excerpt from it that I feel deserves its own post.

    Now, let’s just get something straight, there is no way to “reasonably” assume somebody’s gender. Not by looking at them, not by what pronouns they use, not by their actions (unless they explicitly state that and even then if they say that they’re the gender they were assigned at birth they could still be closeted or not know that you can be trans/nonbinary) and not by their clothing. Allow me to demonstrate with the following visual aids:

    This is me in all my DMAB (Designated Male At Birth) nonbinary trans person glory. Cis people almost always assume that I am male just by looking at me and never even bother to ask my gender or pronouns because society trains you that you can judge a person’s gender by looking at them and that everybody of a certain gender has certain features. That is cissexist and something that we, as a society, need to work on because those assumptions lead to people treating trans people poorly in general and me poorly specifically, such as misgendering me (which can and has triggered my gender dysphoria) or ostracising me when I come out to them.

    And furthermore, I don’t actually come out to people unless I feel comfortable around them and trust them. Which means that the majority of people I interact with in my day-to-day live think I’m male.

    And here is an additional visual aid:

    (adorable, aren’t I?)

    If people I’m not out to but know see that I am almost certainly going to get laughed at at the very least, if not exposed to possibly being outed against my will to other people I’m not ready to be out to and facing more consequences.

    None of the other people at the prom could tell that he wore that dress because of a bet and to cheer up Pyrrha, they just straight-up laughed at him without knowing the context and that is treated as being acceptable and normal to do. He actually did seem comfortable in it if you ask me but that’s also being treated as a joke by the fandom and the show itself. And the younger viewers seeing this and not having a proper understanding of trans people will just accept the idea that somebody they perceive as a man wearing a dress or any similarly feminine-coded clothing or accessory is a joke and worthy of ridicule, which is just another way that transphobia is ingrained in our society.

    And frankly, up until this episode I had actually seen the potential for Juane to be revealed as trans and had just been going through the “desperately trying to be the gender you were assigned at birth because you don’t know how to deal with these feelings you’re having” phase that some of us go through (his actions have certainly reminded me of my own time in that phase when I was younger). And that storyline could have also pointed out the toxicity of compulsory masculinity, and made some really important social commentary. But now I can see that was just wishful thinking on my part.

    Finally, if you wish to support a given community of oppressed people you need to learn not to talk over them and listen to what they have to say. Your experiences as a privileged person mean that you do not have the ability to accurately judge the issues that affect those people specifically and you do not get to explain how they are wrong about their own experiences.

     
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    xdaringdamselx:

terezi-pie-rope:

[homestucks nodding as they reblog]

I swear I’ve never seen a fandom as chill about hate as Homestuck. Someone goes “HOMESTUCK SUCKS BLUH BLUH” and the Homestuck it’s directed at will just high-five them and go “DAMN STRAIGHT LOOK AT THIS BULLSHIT”

    xdaringdamselx:

    terezi-pie-rope:

    [homestucks nodding as they reblog]

    I swear I’ve never seen a fandom as chill about hate as Homestuck. Someone goes “HOMESTUCK SUCKS BLUH BLUH” and the Homestuck it’s directed at will just high-five them and go “DAMN STRAIGHT LOOK AT THIS BULLSHIT”

    (Source: punktrolls)

     
  4. 00:28

    Notes: 597

    Reblogged from lifeislikeabadrpg

    izzielosttheirmind:

    if you invalidate non-binary peoples’ identities by accusing them of trying to be special snowflakes you ought not to be following me.

     
  5. pokemonmasterkimba:

gaining new followers

    pokemonmasterkimba:

    gaining new followers

     
  6. 23:28

    Notes: 3

    God damnit I get the feeling that it’s gonna be one of those days where I make a lot of nsfw posts under readmores but I’m also gaining new followers from the posts I have going around and I don’t want that to be their first impression of me

     
  7. oh look another nsfw readmore post for my rl friends to please ignore

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  8. nsfw under the readmore, rl friends and people who don’t want to see that don’t look

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  9. 21:26

    Notes: 15074

    Reblogged from puddlejumper9

    Tags: cissexismgenital mentiontransmisogyny

    Anonymous said: As a lesbian, I do not care at all about bisexual girls feeling left out or judged in the LGBTQ community. I know that's horrible, especially since my girlfriend is bi, but I find it very revolting when I think about making love with someone that loves taking dick. I fell for my girlfriend without knowing she likes guys and girls. I don't purposefully date bisexual girls and I don't think it's wrong to say that.

    sc0uttt:

    fatpinkmyrishswamp:

    sc0uttt:

    the-unfeminine-aesthetic:

    .

    I really hope your girlfriend realizes she’s dating a pathetic waste of a human being and finds someone infinitely better. 

    A lot of lesbians are turned off by the idea of their gf having sex with men. Why is that such a bad thing? Why is it so wrong to only like women who like other women? I think the anon who asked this should be honest with her gf and break up with her though if it’s that much of a turn off. 

    At first I wasn’t going to reply to comments like these but now that I’ve had a couple of beers the idea of repeatedly hitting my head against a brick wall seems more enjoyable so here we go.

    I have a problem with lesbians who claim that they have a “preference” towards dating other lesbians over bisexuals. I understand having a preference, I personally have a preference for girls who are my height or taller than me.  However, does this preference make me view my own voice, safety, and representation in my community as superior and of more importance than those I do not have a preference for? Nope. That’s why this anon (and unfortunately other like minded individuals)  don’t have a “preference” they are biphobic and overall prejudicial assholes.

    If you’re not comfortable dating bisexual people because you feel they will ultimately leave you for the opposite sex or (insert other stereotypical view of bisexuals) you don’t have a preference, you are biphobic, and have some huge insecurities that you should probably deal with before you enter a relationship.

    If you’re a lesbian and do not feel comfortable dating a woman who is also attracted to individuals with dicks because you find it “icky” or “gross”, it must blow your mind when you find out your partner likes watermelon and you don’t. How do you even move forward from there? Is the relationship just doomed? And yes it is the same thing. Those individuals are judging someone based on something they cannot control.

    Prejudice and phobia inside the queer community is something I will never understand and is absolutely infuriating. 

    While this reply is spot on about a lot of things it’s important that in our MOGAI activism we stop equating penises with men and vaginas with women, as that is cissexist and transmisogynistic when it comes to excluding lesbian and bisexual trans women from spaces where they belong.

     
  10. 21:18

    Notes: 24502

    Reblogged from lifeislikeabadrpg

    Tags: I'm white tag

    hextrudedcubes:

    beowulfstits-archive:

    friendly reminder that spirit animals are a sacred concept in a variety of religions worldwide (many of them being aboriginal religions that are at risk of destruction by european colonialism) and are not a way to joke about your admiration for something

    Excellent alternative: Patronus